What’s yours, what’s there’s, and what’s in between? Lifetime of serving and giving away power to loving and giving unconditionally and freely without the worry of becoming empty or being hurt by opening your heart.
If you’ve mastered the art of people pleasing and making other people smile, often to the expense of yourself, now it is time to learn how to be fully, freely you and still be there for the world.
What part of you is missing from your home that makes it not a home? What part of you is missing from your marriage that makes it incomplete? What part of you is missing from your friendship that makes it unfulfilling? What part of you is missing from your job that makes it less than what you desire? What part of you is missing from your life that makes it not your life?
Yes, change is in order, is a constant, but what part of you is missing from this moment and this area of focus that can bring peace to this moment? Where can you be less rigid, less hard, tight, constricted? What parts of you feel barricaded by this situation or that? Get to the root of what’s coming up for you. Go deeper, so you can dig it out and be free of the red-light pain. The pain is a witness for you to do what you need to do to restore balance and relief. When you lay down the railroad ties in your world, be conscious of where you lay them. Do the don’ts, can’ts, and won’ts restrict you or give you more movement? I don’t have money/ or I don’t believe in limitation. I can’t do this anymore/ or I can’t do it from my limited way of thinking or being. I won’t ever do that again/ or I won’t be so hard on myself next time I do.
In relationships with yourself and with others, what is your pretext for treatment, love-based or fear-based? Conditional or free-flowing? The way you’ve always done it or the new way you’re opening to? What IS real in this wonderland world? Plum through long-standing separateness and reach for unity.
In relationships, where there has been fear of abandonment and fear of needs not being met, look to see where in your relationship with you have you been neglected. This is a terrifying place to be as a child, and your inner child will react strongly in situations that appear to reflect this situation. It’s a knee-jerk response. But as you become more conscious, you can begin to address your needs directly without the appearance of resentment, bitterness, or hostility. In short, you don’t have to fight anymore to get what you want of need. You don’t have to fight to be loved.
We are learning not to get turned on our heads by what’s going on with those around us and to become more centered in ourselves by way of awareness. We are commanding more presence so that we can shine our lights into their darkness while remaining within our boundaries so that we are allowing them their process and their perspective. We no longer need to be threatened by it. We are beginning to better know when to pull back and when to move forward, as we listen more tentatively to our own truth and hoan the ability to drown out what’s not ours.
In this rebirth, as in labor, there will be times when you push and times when you breath through. If you are not in every moment who you wish to be in your experience, remember the soothing balm of forgiveness. We must be as gentle with ourselves in this process as we would in nurturing another.
As we are plummeted to the depths and emerging on the crest of the heights, remember self care. Remember to rest, to nourish, to take respite, to smile, to breathe, to comfort your self. Remember gentle pats on the back and repeating ‘It’s all right. It’s All all right’. And it really is. It’s all just a game, all just a process. Win or lose, you’re you through and through. And your evolution is evolving with or without you. Evolving is cyclical in nature and a process that happens over time. You grow, and then you are free to be. Be. Grow. Free.
Know that many sisters and brothers join you in this process, feel your pain, experience your frustrations, stumble, fall, pick themselves back up again. Know that each fall is a forward movement as it’s yet another step in the direction of your greatness. And with each fall, you learn and you realize that you will survive, you will go on, you can get back up again. It’s the nature of learning anything. Just as night proceeds day and Winter follows Fall, there is an order to things, even when it appears to be chaos.
Taylor your focus to what is right rather than projecting attention on what is wrong. Let the cycles teach you while you dip your toes in the waters of emotional indicators of what you need to learn, just don’t get swallowed by the wave. If you’re able to witness in autumn the leaves falling from the trees, you will see there is such a grace about it. There is no tugging or prodding. No resistance or hanging on. The old leaves have served their purpose and now they are making room for new growth. And it is such a beautiful process, really, leaves dancing in the air as the wind supports their journey, as they paint the sky with their rich hues. It is the same for you now, and every time you endeavor to grow. Let yourself be carried by the grace of the wind, and let it all fall away.
Full hearts ahead!
In loving grace,
~Rhonda
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