Sunday, November 21, 2010

The Trusted Companion

Self-trust tosses a whole other demension into the reality of what w’re operating under. For me, this is the skeleton key, the one that unlocks everything, the one that makes it all incredible obvious and suddenly completely opaque.

I read an article about this this morning and it hit me at a profound level, and I thought it might hit you there too.  It was a Eureka moment. How could I have missed it?! All this talk of self-love and building a better relationship with self, and there it is-Trust-the key component to any relationship!

So the question I must pose, of course, is ‘Do you trust yourself?’ Are you flexible enough in your I Am relationship with you right now to move beyond all the past mistakes, and their repercussion? All the fear of getting it right and doing it wrong?  All the limitations placed because of your self-perceived errors?

Are you ready to put that down and go forward anyway, opening to trust in you, just one more time, or for the first time ever?

Here’s how to gauge your self-trust level and determine your current status.  Do you trust you to make decisions or are you second-guessing all the time?  Do you trust in you to live out your dreams and really make ‘it’ happen, or do you doubt it will ever come true?  Do you question yourself more than you confirm? Do you cancel out more than you complete? Do you spend lots of time lost in regret or wondering how to do it better, do it over, get it right?  DO you know how to distinguish between the voice in your heart and the one in your head?  Are you I constant judgment of yourself  just to try to ensure that you don’t flub something up?

Do the math.  Where do you stand? Do you dare take the leap and offer up a handshake of trust. And by doing so agree to believe in you, and agree to believe that everything’s going to be ok. And you know that you are one hundred percent capable, when you are.  And when you’re not, that’s ok too.  Because trust is like faith.  It has something of an inherent guarantee, a component of security in the unknown, and a lack of need to know, really.  Because in the end, it’s All Good (God).

So evaluate your trust-ability in you, in God, in the Higher Plan- it’s all the same.  Break it down for yourself a bit though, as you’re factoring your equation.  Where exactly does your lack of trust lie?  Can you name it?  Is it across the board?  Is it serving you?  What would it hurt (in comparison) if you did it differently? Feel, for a moment, how it feel to trust yourself right now, to open to the possibilities within that? Notice any change in you in that trusted place? Notice any difference in your life within that scenerio?

Realize that this leap of faith is going to take some forgiveness, some willingness to let go of any pain caused by the leftover letdowns of the past.  But harboring when is impairing you and your ability to move freely and fully within the horizon of Who You Are.

So take a chance on you.  Trust that you can handle it,. And know that no matter what-it all comes down to one Truth, and that Truth is Love.  What better way to love yourself into reunion with you than to begin trusting in you now? How much better does any relationship operate when trust is explicit? Are you ready for that shift in your inner dynamic? Dive in. Your Self is waiting.

All toward making it easier on ourselves as we move forward into all of our expansiveness and glory!

Be Light!

Love to you,
~Rhonda
Awakeningthedivine.net

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2 comments:

  1. THANKS!!! This is so true and on the perfect moment for me, Love xxx Joèlla

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  2. The gauge on my self-trust level is definately shifting...I am ready to step forward in trusting myself to step forward. I am forgiving myself and grateful for my experiences...I am so very thankful for the wisdom you share :))

    Love and Light
    Lisa

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